Sunday, January 22, 2012
What should I do?! plz helpppp?!?
Here is the one golden rule about guys that you will thank me forever for letting you in on if youd don't already know. Guys always want what they can't have. It's true that whatever you chase in life runs away. Guys want to have to work for something because he feels like if he don't have to work for it then it must not be worthwhile. So you were most likely all ellusive before and then you ended up liking him because he was showing you all this affection and making you feel good about yourself. A lot of times a girl will be into a guy she never would have in the first place simply because he is showering her with attention and making her feel wanted (which happens to be what girls want the most). He makes you feel good about yourself when he's around and then you end up craving his company. So you probobly didn't really like him in the first place for who he was which should make it easy to get over him. When he suddenly turns it all off then you totally crave all the attention back which makes you want him soooo much more. Try giving loads of compliments to yourself and totally seeing yoursef as the lioness you are! Then you won't need outside affirmation so much. That little thing called modesty is just a pesky little afliction. What turns a guy on more than anything is a girl who is super confident who is totally not needing him. So be that girl. Treat him like you would treat a guy you're not intersted in and he will totally crave you. Run after him and act all insecure that he's not wanting you anymore and it will be a self fulfilling profecy. Have you noticed how that works? When you don't like a guy they totally want you and when you're head over heels for a guy they could care less. Now you're wondering how do I ever get into a relationship this way because I always have to show a guy I don't want him? Once you make him chase after you enough and really really have to go through a lot to finally get with you then you can slowly start coming around and giving him little hints that you like him. But just tiny little morsels at a time. It's kind of like your favorite food, if you're really starving it makes it sooooo much better but after you've eaten a whole meal your not thinking about it. And once you finally do get into a relationship with him you still need to have your own life and you can't be the clingy type. That is what will keep him intriqued because even though he has you, he knows he never really "has you". He WILL test this out to see how needy you are. He won't call you etc just to see how you react. Just act like you haven't noticed he hasn't called because time sure does fly when you are a hot little minx with so many things going on!
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